It’s All In The Family

About

For Sylvia, being an artist is not only about singing. It’s also about listening deeply: to herself, to others, and to the stories that want to be told. That’s what first led her to discover her love of music as a child and, subsequently, to enjoy more than two decades of a successful and multifaceted career as a singer and songwriter. But listening is also what brought Sylvia to a crossroads in 2002, when she heard a new call and made the conscious choice to pivot away from music. Since then, Sylvia has enjoyed a successful second career as a certified life and career coach, employing her long-held personal values of compassion, curiosity, and non- judgment to help business executives, artists of all genres, small business owners, and non- profit organizations realize productive self-discovery.

  • Yet throughout this time, Sylvia never stopped evolving and engaging in her own process of self-discovery as an artist. As a result, this fall she will release It’s All in the Family, her first album in 14 years and the first ever on which she is a co-writer on the majority of songs. Throughout the album, Sylvia touches on the choices, challenges, and turns in the road that have brought her to where she stands today and delivers her most personal material to date, combining her skill as a vocalist with her heart as a storyteller.

    It’s All In The Family is brimming with songs that evoke precise places, times, and emotions. Whether it’s the clawhammer banjo and old-time music influence on the opening track, “Every Time a Train Goes By,” or the Irish tin whistle and strong imagery on “Immigrant Shoes,” listeners are invited into dozens of specific, formative, and intimate moments in the lives of Sylvia and her family. But like all great stories, It’s All In The Family doesn’t feel limited to the bounds of its particular characters, images, and events. Each song touches and builds on a collection of themes that connects the listener with that which is universal.

    Perhaps the most pervasive theme on the album is that of family. On the title track, “All in the Family,” one of four songs co-written with John Mock and Thom Schuyler, Sylvia illuminates both the positive and painful ways we are bound to family with a series of simple yet striking images: a wedding dress worn by three generations, a family recipe handed down, a mother protecting her children from hardship, and a family member lost too soon to alcoholism. On “Somebody’s Daughter,” she offers a gentle but compelling reminder that the tenderness we feel for those we love most is neither illusion nor weakness; the ties of love that bind us to our parents and our children are real, and are in fact the very same ones that connect us to our broader human family.

    On “Cumberland Rose” and “Hope’s Too Hard,” two songs specifically selected by Sylvia for the album because of their resonance with its themes, she explores another ubiquitous facet of the human experience – the inevitability of loss and grief and the question of how to face them. While the album doesn’t offer a clear-cut, facile answer, it consistently bears witness to the transformative power of acknowledging our wounds, facing our fears, and accepting our past. Sylvia shows that surrendering to what is beyond our control is not the same thing as giving up – it takes profound courage and strength, and it’s necessary in order to realize new possibilities.

    As Sylvia recounts these moving stories that span generations, the interplay between the past, present, and future emerges as another strong motif. Sylvia fully acknowledges the irrevocable influence of the past; “Grandpa Kirby Runnin’ the Hounds” features her grandfather’s actual fiddle and banjo in a warm callback to the barn dances he played at in the early 1900s. But at the same time that she honors her roots, she boldly celebrates the beauty of the present and potential of the future. In “Leave the Past in the Past” and “I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing,” two of four collaborations with Bobby Tomberlin, she offers metaphors that illustrate what it would look like to physically overcome that which holds us back. Whether it’s clearing all the chairs from the kitchen to make room to dance or climbing a mountain to gain a new perspective from the top, through these songs we experience what it feels like not to regret or dismiss the past, but to let it go in order to make room for what is coming next. In several songs, including the powerful closing track “Do Not Cry For Me,” Sylvia embodies the voice of someone who is looking back with a deep sense of peace, gratitude, and all-encompassing love that will transcend time.

    Just as Sylvia speaks from many different perspectives and with many different voices from track to track – yet ultimately delivers an album with strong, resounding lyrical themes – a range of musical styles on the album produces a cohesive sound that defies neat categorization. The collaborations on the album – between co-producers Sylvia and John Mock, between co-writers, and between the cadre of other exceptional musicians featured on each track – truly feel organic, with distinct influences of folk, country, bluegrass, classical, and Irish music coming together naturally to produce something that feels both new and deeply rooted in tradition.

Lyrics and Publishing Info

  • John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Thom Schuyler/Alrighty Den Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: Three years old and my sundress on

    Golden Book tucked up under my arm

    When I suddenly heard that sound

    Filled the valley and shook the ground

    My body was frozen

    Cups and saucers started to shake

    Fear on the horizon

    Run and hide before it’s too late

    V2: One morning I stood still

    Engine rumbling over the hill

    Held my breath and I closed my eyes

    Feared the worst but to my surprise

    A loud whistle was blowin’

    Opened my eyes and what did I see?

    Right there in my backyard

    That conductor smiling at me

    CH: Every Time a Train Goes By

    A Train Goes By, my confidence grows

    I can face any old whistle that blows

    Every Time a Train Goes – By

    CH2: Every Time a Train Goes By

    A Train Goes By, my confidence grows

    I can face any old whistle that blows

    Every Time a Train Goes

    Every Time a Train Goes By

    A Train Goes By, my confidence grows

    I can face any old whistle that blows

    Every Time a Train Goes By

  • Thom Schuyler/Alrighty Den Music (BMI)

    John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: Every girl is Somebody’s Daughter

    Every boy is somebody’s son

    There may be something they’re chasing

    Or trying to outrun, what they’ve done

    So be kind to everybody’s daughter

    And everybody’s son

    V2: Every day you’ll hear someone laughing

    Every day you’ll see someone cry

    You may say hello to a stranger

    Or tell a friend goodbye, a sad goodbye

    Try to laugh with everyone who’s laughing

    And cry with those who cry

    BR: We try our best to keep our tears out of view

    But there are shadows that we’re all walking through

    So put some tenderness in all that you do

    All you do

    V3: In a world that keeps moving faster

    On a planet that circles the sun

    We all get lost on the journey

    Forget where we come from, everyone

    So remember you’re everybody’s daughter

    And everybody’s son

    Everybody’s daughter, everybody’s daughter, everybody’s daughter

  • Bobby Tomberlin/Mike Curb Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: Life is like a candle

    It burns out way too fast

    And we’ve had all we can handle

    So tonight let’s just dance

    CH: And who knows what we might find

    If we surrender heart and mind

    Stay here with me, make this moment last

    And let’s just Leave the Past in the Past

    V2: We can move the chairs from the kitchen

    Make our own dance floor

    Play the best love songs ever written

    ‘Til our hearts can take no more

    CH: And who knows what we might find

    If we surrender heart and mind

    Stay here with me, make this moment last

    And let’s just Leave the Past in the Past

    BR: There’s no future in what’s gone on before

    So, let’s not give our past one minute more

    CH: And who knows what we might find

    If we surrender heart and mind

    Stay here with me, make this moment last

    And who knows what we might find

    If we surrender heart and mind

    Just stay with me, make this moment last

    And let’s just Leave the Past in the Past

    Adlibs: Leave it in the past, Darling, leave it in the past

    And let’s just dance, Honey, that’s all that I ask

    Who – oo – oo, whoa – whoa – oh – oh – oh – oh

  • Bobby Tomberlin/Mike Curb Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: Every road I’ve gone down

    Has come to a dead end, I’d have to turn around

    But there was always a lesson to learn

    Now I’ve finally made A Right Turn

    CH: Just when I thought my heart was all done

    Woke up one day to find that certain one

    That makes me laugh, makes me come back alive

    Now I realize it was worth every long, hard mile

    V2: Caught a wayward wind everywhere I’d go

    But I can’t say I took a wrong road

    ‘Cause every lost highway, every reckless curve

    Has led me to this Right Turn

    CH: Just when I thought my heart was all done

    Woke up one day to find that certain one

    That makes me laugh, makes me come back alive

    Now I realize it was worth every long, hard mile

    V3: After all the rain this old heart’s been in

    Wouldn’t change a thing, I’d do it all again

    There’s no going back to the way things were

    ‘Cause I know I’ve made A Right Turn

  • Thom Schuyler/Alrighty Den Music (BMI)

    John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: That’s your Grandfather and me

    On the day I became his bride

    With uncles and cousins and aunts

    Homemade biscuits and chicken fried

    The recipe…

    It’s All In the Family

    V2: There’s my Mom when we were kids

    Hanging laundry out in the yard

    If she cried she kept it hid

    So we never knew times were hard

    She’d say – to me

    It’s All In the Family

    BR1: You can run but you cannot hide

    The Truth inside

    It’s stronger than an ocean tide

    V3: Here’s a boy you’ll never know

    He’d be sixty, my brother Jim

    Every time the whiskey flowed

    It would steal away a part of him

    Will we break free?

    It’s All In the Family

    BR2: You can run, you can change your name

    You’re still the same

    A part of an Eternal Flame

    V4: I can hear your mother’s voice

    See your father there in your smile

    Glad you’ll be wearing my dress

    When he’s walking you down the aisle

    This love you see is All In the Family

    This love you see is All In the Family

  • John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Instrumental

  • John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Thom Schuyler/Alrighty Den Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    CH: One old ship in the harbor

    One new flag in the air

    Seven weeks on the water

    We’re finally there

    Said goodbye to the Old World

    Say hello to the New

    We’ll dance to a new song

    In these Immigrant Shoes

    V1: Feet shuffle in rhythm

    As we make our way to the shore

    By the lamp lighting our path through

    The Golden Door

    Poor, tired and hungry

    When we left those fields of stone

    Now I hear my heart whisper,

    “Welcome home!”

    CH2: One old ship in the harbor

    One new flag in the air

    Seven weeks on the water

    We’re finally there

    Said goodbye to the Old World

    Say hello to the New

    We’ll dance to a new song

    In these Immigrant Shoes


    (Instrumental)

    V2: Long lines on the island

    Every language under the sun

    All straining to hear their

    Mother Tongue

    All that we could carry

    In our hands and over our backs

    Pots, pans, and hand-me-downs

    And photographs

    CH3: One old ship in the harbor

    One new flag in the air

    Seven weeks on the water

    We’re finally there

    Said goodbye to the Old World

    Say hello to the New

    We’ll dance to a new song

    In these Immigrant Shoes

    (Instrumental)

    BR: What was far away is in front of me

    What was once a dream came true

    V3: Quinn picks up his fiddle

    And a stranger’s playing the spoons

    Dresses swirling in circles

    To familiar tunes

    Out on the horizon

    There’s a new mysterious land

    On a couple acres of heaven

    We’ll make our stand

    CH4: One old ship in the harbor

    One new flag in the air

    Seven weeks on the water

    We’re finally there

    Said goodbye to the Old World

    Say hello to the New

    We’ll dance to a new song

    In these Immigrant Shoes

  • Craig Bickhardt (ASCAP)

    Jeff Pennig/Almo Music Corporation (ASCAP)

    CH: (Sung a cappella):

    They call her Cumberland Rose

    Where the Cumberland flows

    And the sound of her voice lingers on

    Oh, the river valley rings

    When her broken heart sings

    For the love of sweet Cumberland Rose

    V1: There’s a bitter wind blown’ off the lonesome plateau

    And the sad song it carries is a song they all know

    Now the melody mingles with the mockingbird’s cry

    And the woman who’s singing has a tear in her eye

    (Repeat CH)

    V2: It’s a question she’s asking of the angels above

    Oh, why have they taken her innocent love

    Now her melody mingles with the mourning’ dove’s sigh

    And the water that ripples in its endless goodbye

    (Repeat CH & instrumental)

    V3: There are two shadows standing in that mountain moonlight

    Where a husband’s consoling his grieving young wife

    There’s a cradle between them lying empty and bare

    As her lullaby echoes in the darkness somewhere

    (Repeat CH & tag)

  • Kate Campbell/Large River Music (BMI)

    V1: I’ve been chattering all night long

    Like a crane or a swallow on and on

    I’ve lost my voice with all this cry in’

    And my will to sing

    CH: Hope’s Too Hard and I’m too weak

    I don’t know if I can keep

    Holding on beyond my reach

    Love could you please sing for me?

    V2: If I could I’d fly away

    Off into the light of day

    But I can’t seem to find the strength

    To even lift my wings

    CH: Hope’s Too Hard and I’m too weak

    I don’t know if I can keep

    Holding on beyond my reach

    Love could you please carry me?

    (Instrumental turn around)

    V3: I wish I could see beyond

    Far beyond the far horizon

    But my eyes are tired from looking up

    And mourning like a dove

    CH: Hope’s Too Hard and I’m too weak

    I don’t know if I can keep

    Holding on beyond my reach

    Love please don’t let go of me

    Hope’s Too Hard and I’m too weak

    I don’t know if I can keep

    Holding on beyond my reach

    Love please don’t let go of me

  • Bobby Tomberlin/Mike Curb Music (BMI)

    Mark Narmore/Oven Music, Inc. (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: You can’t appreciate the ocean if you’ve never seen it

    Or felt the power of the waves if you’ve only dreamed it

    You’ll never see the view from the top if you never climb up

    So take a chance and jump on in

    Who knows where you’ll wind up?

    CH: Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

    Till something more than real

    I never dreamed I’d feel

    Got my attention

    What a sweet surprise

    To find a love that I never knew existed

    Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

    V2: What I thought was love forevermore was just imitation

    But a whole lot of nothing much is what I’ve been chasing

    What you fear will always hold you back until you face it

    You only live this life one time

    So baby, don’t waste it

    CH2: Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

    Till something more than real

    I never dreamed I’d feel

    Got my attention

    What a sweet surprise

    To find a love that I never knew existed

    Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

    (Instrumental)

    CH3: Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

    Till something more than real

    I never dreamed I’d feel

    Got my attention

    What a sweet surprise

    To find a love that I never knew existed

    Whoa-ooo, I Didn’t Know What I Was Missing

  • Bobby Tomberlin/Mike Curb Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: Here Lately, I’m not in a hurry like I used to be

    And lately, it don’t take half as much to satisfy me

    CH: Just waking up is more than enough

    Right here is where I want to be

    And for a change I’m learning how to love myself

    Here Lately

    V2: Here Lately, I feel more like me than I’ve ever been

    And lately, life is like a dream and I’m a kid again

    CH: Just waking up is more than enough

    Right here is where I want to be

    And for a change I’m learning how to love myself

    Here Lately

    BR: This long, hard road that we’ve been on

    Broke my heart but it’s made me strong

    V3: Here Lately, I’m not living in the past or drowning in regret

    And lately, I’m finding what I give’s exactly what I get

    CH: Just waking up is more than enough

    Right here is where I want to be

    And for a change I’m learning how to love myself

    Here Lately

    (Repeat CH)

  • John Mock/Kinvara Music (BMI)

    Sylvia Hutton/Family Time Music (BMI)

    V1: When I look in the mirror

    Of this life I have lived

    I can see things oh, so clearly

    Though my eyesight may be dim

    Friends and family gather ‘round me

    For the end now is near

    In the light a voice is calling

    But there’s nothing that I fear

    CH1: Do Not Cry For Me, my darling

    It is time; my work is through

    I’ll be near to you, my darling

    Ever watching over you

    I’ll be closer than the sunlight

    Lying soft on your skin

    For this love has no beginning

    Nor will it ever end

    V2: In the full bloom of summer

    In the first blush of spring

    You will feel me all around you

    I will live in everything

    There was nothing more precious

    Than the love that you gave

    It’s your love I am made of

    That will live beyond my grave

    CH2: Do Not Cry For Me, my darling

    It is time; my work is through

    I’ll be near to you, my darling

    Ever watching over you

    I’ll be closer than the sunlight

    Lying soft on your skin

    For this love has no beginning

    Nor will it ever end